The days pass, the weeks pass. Heck, even the months can pass. Before you know it, you can’t remember the last time you had sex. Stressors of today combined with a diminishing sex drive—for both of you—can make the time go by as you slowly lose intimacy, connection, and sexual health benefits. But it’s never too late, and the most important way to start having sex again is simply to start. These tips for getting over a sex drought can help.